I hate pretentious people.
People who acts in a certain way when they're around some people or people of the opposite sex and,when you turn your back,they act back the way they were. Two-faced jackasses.
Some people act all goody-goody when they're out with friends or people of the opposite sex. They try to show their good side or pretend to be someone they're not totally. But when they're around very familiar people, they act WAYYYY different. They act the way they usually are.
And this problem is not just for guys who try to pick up girls or show girls that they're some sort of "gentlemen" (when in truth they're not) but this problem can also fall on girls. Yes, I also know someone who's like that. Different from the way I see her and the way her friends see her.(NOT someone you may be thinking)
It's really bullshit. It's okay if you just want to be slightly polite or try to be better from who you usually are. But a full 180degrees change?? Please.
If people like you, they'll like you for whatever your attitude and personality may be. But if they don't when you show them who you really are, then it's obvious you need a personality change. And if you do change, you change and you show EVERYONE that your attitude had changed for everyone. Not just for particular someones.
And for some people who don't know another person well, don't go pretend and lie to yourself that you know them well to say things that only friends do. You really don't. So observe the formality and stop pretending.
For those who felt something, I DON'T CARE if you don't talk to me after this. I just need to get this off my chest.
I really do hate pretenders.
Once a pretender, always will be a pretender. And you'll never know who you really are.
Thursday, August 07, 2008
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3 comments:
Bro, I hate pretenders too. But some times we've got no choice but to pretend to be the person we're not or do the things which we don't want to do, in order to help that SOMEONE get over stuff. No, I don't mean we're forced to pretend to be some one we're not to our advantage, but merely helping other people out. It's sad that some people needs us to do that for them. And I hate doing that too. But as for the pretenders that you were describing just now, they really need to get a life, grow up, and stop acting like a kid.
if we HAVE to in order to help someone,it's fine.
not when we NEED to in order to gain something or someone's trust. that's really bullshit.
totally agree.
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