Open??? or just plain Cheap???

Chin Hou has heard this comment coming out from my mouth.Yes.I'm currently still puzzled and wondering if female nowadays are open or just,well,cheap.I don't think there's any other words to describe it without beating around the bush.Other than the Malay words,"harga diri" and "maruah diri" that is.

It's true.Nowadays,we can talk to girls about almost everything.It's good in a way.But don't you think we may be carrying this a little too far??Being open is about being able to accept certain issues such as religion or private issues.But,there are girls now who aren't ashamed about talking about their body parts,to guys.There's nothing on your body that we don't know about.But for god's sake,have a little self-respect.We can't copy the Western culture bit for bit.

I'm just lucky to say that people my age that I know still have self-respect.I can talk about the matter of sex or things like kissing,hugging,etc and they don't mind.But just try talking about their boobs or something and you'll end up with a slap or two right across your face.This is what I'm talking about.But I know people who can take being "boob-talked"(my own word) or saying things about their private areas.

But when people say they're fat,they get sensitive.

This also goes out to the guys as well.Don't comment about a girl's body parts.Sure you can say they look hot or sexy and stuffs as a compliment.But don't take it too far.Give females the respect they themselves should have.They may have an open mind about it,but,if possible,try not using it in your conversations.

A good conversationalists,or simply a good communicator can have a good conversation with the opposite sex just by normal topics alone.There's no need to touch on sensitive issues.Iwouldn't try that among my friends.

How would you guys feel if the girls talked about your,err,little "hobbit" there?

Keep that fine line between casual and cheap.Girls who don't respect themselves are no better than prostitutes.And guy's who have no respect for girls are just @$$holes (forgive my cuss).What we say may give a first impression to others on who we are.Especially if you're at your other half's house and their parents caught you talking about these things.Lots of tense and explaining on your part.

I know some people may think of this as being conservative minded.But the fact is,it's NOT.No matter what century we live in,how open we are,how conservative our minds can tolerate,self-respect should always come in between.I'm sure everyone dresses to impress.No one would dress to hope "someone,please look down my cleavage",right??

That's self-respect there.It's not conservative-minded.

Well,that's all I've got to say on the issue.To take this advice or not is still up to you.Argumentative still,but this is purely my opinion.

Randoms

This is my randoms.Really don't have anything serious to blog nowadays.

Went to college for my Malaysian Studies discussion.Our presentation is tomorrow.I'm speaking from the point of a Japanese officer during the Japanese Occupation.Sat in Raspberry with Shawn,JT,Chin Hou and Ben having breakfast while waiting for Li Sian and Jia Ling to show up.When they did,we ended up having our discussion there.

Had lunch in Teppanyaki with JT and Chin Hou.JT cheng me da meal.Now I owe him Nandos after CNY.Made my way home and took a nap.Over-exhausted.

Got most of my Design assignment references from Kennysia's blog.He practically helped with my assignment.

Can't stop reading Kennysia's blog.Funny dude.Started reading at 9 and stop just a few minutes before I published my blog post.

Thought of my next blog post,which I'm too lazy to put up now.

Still figuring why people can't use the word "Christmas" anymore.Religion matter.

Make a note to myself not to take pictures in Singapore's SMRT stations.

Go out to more clubs in the future.Looks cool but I'll try to control my alcohol intake there.Besides,the view in clubs are "breathtaking".

Still kembang from Li Sian's comment that my presentation speech has "attitude".Oh yeah..

Wondering if I'll put on a kg or two tomorrow after walloping off a chicken rice and a chicken set from Rasa Ayamas.

Feeling really happy that all my pimple problems have disappeared.Gives a real boost to the male ego now.Wahahahaha...

Ah man.I still suck at blogging randoms.Will try better next time.Goodnitez..

Crap,crap and more crap..ketam

WOW!!!It's been ages since i last blogged.Hmm..almost a month.Oh well..I'M BACK!!!

Yes Ozzie...you can read my blog now.Don't have to remind me to blog adi.I FINALLY have the time to blog.Been busy for sometime.So,to keep things a lot shorter,here's a recap for everything that's happened in the past few weeks..

• Experienced the lost of a good friend.
• Celebrated New Year wit some friends.
• Rushed my holiday assignments which in the end,did not pass up.
• Lazed around doing nothing but figged.
• Tried to finish playing Need For Speed:Most Wanted.
• Celebrated Li Sian's birthday.
• Term 3 of college starts.
• Assignment volcano starting to erupt again.

Well,that's the general things that has happened in the past weeks.Most of them are self-explainable.Move on to the start of Term3 in TOA.

Monday,Gary's Comm Skills class.

We have our good ol' drama tutor back.Teachin presentation skills this time.Still utilising his drama skills to incorporate in presentation.Overall,still fun.Did a story-telling presentation.A Terrifying Experience.Had to tell about things that had terrified us whether fiction or self-experience.

LCK's (dunno his full name) Perspective Study.

Quite ok but he's very fast.Even the resit students said so.So far,we drew a plan for our own room (or dream room),a bungalow and some funny structures which were quite confusing at times.

Tuesday,Hoon Sun's Illus Fundamental class.

Did a short test on our basic understanding of composition.Not essay composition,but figures composition.Given our first assignment,which is to do a whole composition on our idol.I did Ruud van Nistelrooy of ManUtd.Hoon Sun approved my last-minute thumb.By the way,I didn't pass up my holiday assignment.Hoon Sun's english command is quite good but Chee Wee's english is extremely confusing.

Wednesday,Jin Ne's Lettering and Calligraphy class.

Quite ok but boring.Didn't learn anything for the pass 2 weeks.Had to do a presentation on calligraphy and lettering and everyone's doing te same thing.Repetitive presentation.

Thursday,NO CLASS!!!

Friday,OCY's Design 3 class.

Uncle Lim Kok Wing's ex-student.Age 30 (he told us 1).Said he went into advertising companies and found out he doesn't like design.And he's teaching us.Quite ok though.Sometimes unprepared for class.Gives a lot of allowances on our assignments.

Uthaya Sankar's Malaysian Studies class.

Funny lecturer.Good in his explanation on malaysian history,although the fact is,it's stil boring.I HATE MALAYSIAN HISTORY!!!We were conquered and conquered,over and over again.Rulers toss our country about,from 1 ruler to another.

Saturday *sigh*,Irwin's Computer Graphics class.

Like a fat sports coach.Makes stupid,lame jokes and doesn't like the clicking sound of the mouse while he's lecturing.Locks our computer screens when he lectures.Talks about chinese dramas with Billy when he's not teaching.

That's all for college.Chinese New Year is coming very soon.T-minus 5 days.WOOHOO!!!Everyone done your clothes shopping???