Wednesday, October 19, 2005

Sad..

Sad...sad...It's so sad wen the people around you can't get along properly.Frens,family,relatives,neighbour,etc..Situations like that are common but wen we hear about it,it somehow just isn't nice.

Family disputes are hard to untangle.Neighbour disputes are no where far.But,disputes among frens are actually one of the easiest to untangle.It just takes 1 party to apologise and you can save a lifetime of frenship.But I noe that sometimes it's not that easy.Some won't give in easily.Some are just waitin for the other to take the first move.

What's wrong with the word "sorry"???It's just another word.I use it often enough.I know the sayin "sorry seems to be the hardest word" and it's NOT JUST THE SONG.It's actually true to some people.Relationship tangles are examples of that phrase.Some of us may have said or did things we shouldn't.Everyone makes mistakes.Nobody's perfect.I may have said things I shouldn't have too.But sometimes it's too late to take back.What's done is done.How we wish that life has a redo or rewind button.

But the most important is that we are able to say we're sorry.Or forgive the offending party.I don't like watchin people around me feeling sad,depressed or angry.Arguements can be mended.But it all depends on each other.How close you are.The most important thing is we do not judge ourselves.Nobody should judge us except God (ok ok,maybe our lecturers and tutors,but that's not the judgin i meant).No one should think that they have a problem.It's when you think it that makes it worse.If you think that you caused a disagreement or dispute,try mending it and not hide away.Face your problems.That's how we can build up courage which we will need in our future life.Life is unpredictable and we have to prepare to face anythin and anyone.

2 comments:

ThePinkRabbit said...

"sorry" does not cure anything...
if it does, osama bin laden can just send an apology letter to bush and everything will be solved..
not that our arguments are THAT serious..but sometimes, the word sorry, especially when said just to mend things, and not sincerely, can just make things worse...
i, personally, find the word sorry a little offending..it's like u think i'll forgive u by this "magical" word...it's not a simple word to use..
i rather prove that i'm sorry...rather than say it...
more sincere and more meaningful...
therefore, i will not say i'm sorry just to solve a problem..
it's not the way...

Chris Yuen said...

i see..ok..actually i din really said it as a "magical" word..but sometimes it's one of da best approach...ok..i think i din insert da word "sincerely" there...but somehow,things will mend with time...and of course,somethin serious is not appropriate to use dat word..but somehow,people still need courage to say it to whoever..nothin in particular...