My View

Okay...My view.And it's on the subject of...*jeng jeng jeng* L.O.V.E. Yes..a lot of people hav been postin about it and this is also a reply to those who commented in my previous post.And oh...because Cindy asked too..

Well,love to my view,is actually not really complicated.That's if you take a moment and think it over properly.And yes,there is true love.True love is when a person,boy/girl,likes their partner simply for them only.They don't care about their looks,how much money their family has,whether sexy/hot or not,etc..If you can totally ignore those factors,you know you are really in love with that person.And that's my version of true love.Love the person for who he/she is and not what they have.

And,Chin Hou.Everybody can have hopes of finding that right person for them.It may take time.Doesn't mean that when I write about my hope of gettin a girlfriend,I have to get it fast or anythin.It's a future hope.It can be tomorrow,a year,5 years,10 years...who knows???Just a hope.Don't have to be taken seriously yet.If I was desperate,I would have just simply chosen a girl back in TARC.It's a fact that there are more choices there.But,none of them suits me.Not interested.

Nobody can fight fate.If you can find the right person for you,why fight it???Just accept fate le.It won't kill you (unless you're a psycho)But there are certain areas in a relationship that requires both parties to be considerate.A relationship does not mean you can't go out with anyone else.You're not legally bound.So if you wish to date someone else,technically it's not wrong.But morally,yes.

But if you were to go out with friends,both sides shouldn't have any complaints.During a relationship,both sides have to loosen the strings a little.Let your partner be free too.Don't be attached to them 24/7.Let him/her be with his/her friends and you can be with yours too.Just as long as we know not to betray the relationship by cheating on each other.That's the most unforgiveable thing anyone can do.Be honest in a relationship.Trust each other.

To me,sometimes having a crush on someone,it doesn't really mean we have to stick to them like glue.We can still go about doing our own things.Maybe we do tend to be around the person we like.That's normal.But most of the time,to me,it's satisfying enough to see that person happy.Free of sadness,depression or anger.It feels nice to see that person smile so sweet that it's able to melt anything.And all it takes is just by trying to be by their side.

You know you are really in love when you keep thinking about them.Even when you don't want to (don't think something wrong enough adi)You can try saying to yoursef that you don't like them but in the end,you still do.You just can't forget them.A desperate person would just go changing targets if he/she can't get the intended target.That's not real love.That's the type who just wants to have a girlfriend.That's truely desperate.They don't really care who they end up with.

So you see,it's not really hard to be in a relationship.It just takes some understanding and tolerance.Without it,you won't even be friends.I'm actually not sure if there's anything else I should have said.If there are anymore interestng facts,I will update this post.Til then..