Monday, June 23, 2008

Love Education

Love (according to the Oxford dictionary)
- warm liking or affection; sexual passion; loved person; (in games) no score; nil.

Love (according to Wikipedia)
- Love represents a range of human emotions and experiences related to the senses of affection and sexual attraction.
- The word love can refer to a variety of different feelings, states, and attitudes, ranging from generic pleasure to intense interpersonal attraction. This diversity of meanings, combined with the complexity of the feelings involved, makes love unusually difficult to consistently define, even compared to other emotional states.

Love - from WikiAnswers
1.
Love differs from heart to heart, love can be good and can be bad. To love and be loved is the perfect ingredients to happiness but to love and not be loved will be a darkness in your soul. Being in love is like a drop of water after years of drought, it eases your souls agonies of life. Being in love is a feeling not all humans will experience. So if you have it cherish...just love it.

2.
Love has never been defined since man began, so we have to use our own hearts and minds to decide. Love isn't all about looking at a good looking woman/man and hearing fireworks go off all the time. That's usually physical attraction, but it's normal at the beginning of our relationship. Love is respect, wanting to help that person in any aspect of their lives; protect them from harm's way; knowing that each other will be there 100%; feeling safe with that person; proud of being with them; sharing your hopes and dreams together; and my favorite ... feeling like you can conquer the world together! Knowing you will be together no matter what and continue on until the day you pass away. Now that's love to me!

3.
Well I'm only 15 but from my opinion of love I just look at my boyfriend and I as a perfect example. Well, sometimes we argue and fight but no matter what we always find some kind of way to make up. If you love someone then you trust them, you can count on them when you need them most. Fine things mean nothing but time means everything. You should be able to tell each other everything. If you never argue then that's not love. And there really is no true definition of love because everyone feels different about the person they love. You can't just speak for everyone because what I was reading didn't make since to me and this was coming from Adults. But like i said i use me and my boyfriend as the perfect example of love in my eyes. We broke up and went back together 7x in one year and we've been together for 2 years. Right now we having our differences but believe me we will talk about this and be okay again because no one or nothing is gonna come in our way of love and no one or nothing will ever separate us.

4.
Love is opening up to a person enough for them to destroy you, while trusting completely that they will not. (me like this quote)





I think I need more education on the above mentioned subject. What should be said, what should be done, etc etc etc.

Would those of you who are more experienced in this leave your comment and educate me further? Even for things you think I MAY know.

But please don't go telling me to treat my baby like a slave. Ain't gonna happen.

So, go ahead. Leave your comments. Educate me, please.

ps. This is NOT a post for you to tell your grandfather grandmother stories about what happened to your bf or gf. It's to know what love means to different people. Til now, there is no one single definition.

1 comment:

smetchedm*j said...

hmmm i c someone is very emotional to write abt love lol!
well,im in a rship for more than 4 yrs and i think d most important things are honesty,loyalty and also compromising. it is usually lovey-dovey in the beginning of a rship n it will not stay tht way bec i blif tht ppl do grow. u knoe...bein mature and stuff. The most important thing is both can grow together bec if one grows and the other is still behind,it isn't healthy.
yes,being in love is totally great bec u'll alw hv someone catching u behind ur back.someone whom u can truly trust. well,d thing is.....both must contribute in d rship and understands each other. Never assume anything abt each other or keep ur dissatisfaction.Most of the time, putting d topic on the table is d best solution rather than having secrets.
wah...hw long more shud i write?hhaha...
wei...nw got another blog oso nv tell me lar?