Monday, August 29, 2005

Loneliness

Loneliness.Hav u ever felt it???It's dat feelin u get when u feel everyone's ignorin u.When u feel that everyone around u is not fond of u,maybe bored of u.And the worse is if u don't even know if u did anythin wrong to deserve it.Most people will feel it when their (so-called) "friends" find a reason to go out with someone else and not u.U're not top of their list of people-to-call and would only be invited out if there is no other options or they are truly desperate.It's true.There are people like that out there among anyone's friends.It makes a person wonder,"what hav i done wrong???Was it somethin i said???Somethin i did maybe???I DON'T KNOW!!!"When these questions start playin in someone's head it can drive that person insane jus thinkin of it.Did u ever know that being left out and ignored is even worse than to be hated???That's why most lonely people tend to turn towards crime in order to get attention.It's true.That's loneliness to u.Imagine if u were to invite someone(we would even hav to do the invitin if we're not invited by anyone) and that person brushes u off with an excuse(maybe sayin they hav somethin to do).And the nex thing,u find the person goin out with someone else.That is a sign that that person would rather find time for someone else and not u.That's an example of being ignored.Wen ur "friends" do not even care about how u feel or even what u think,and would rather care about another much-more-popular friend and doesn't care for your opinions.Would the world be a better place if there is no such thing as popularity???It would cause ignorance to those who are less popular.It hurts.Badly.No one should ever be ignored.I don't like ignorin people even if they are less popular.I know how it feels.Havin to face all the loneliness,jus starin at all 4 walls in you bedroom with no friends who really care about u.Won't even think about askin u to go out "lepak" or anythin.That's loneliness my friends.And it really hurts a person deeply.If you do hav a friend who is feelin lonely,try talkin to them instead of ignorin them.Maybe help them by tellin them if they had said somethin which people may find disturbin.Help them improve and not leave them to deal with themselves.

2 comments:

ThePinkRabbit said...

feel better after writing about it? sometimes we'll feel like that wan la...it's normal..don't think so much..maybe u should reflect back on urself and think hard about how u act around people...?
u probably didn't do anything wrong..but some people have low tolerances...maybe try to change ur attitude..be more of a friend instead of trying to impress people...okay? hope this helps..and hope u're not lonely anymore..

Chris Yuen said...

thanx sam....but nah...i'm not sayin i was lonely...jus felt like writin an article cuz i was too bored...hehehe....but thanx anyway..